真心与真诚（继续）

在之前 我聊过“真心”需要一点自信的了解。

Richard Wollheim在The Thread of Life的最后几面则做出了Love和like的区分：
“Love. as we have seen, does not presuppose an attitude……It is a response……“
"Friendship must require an attitude……Being a response to the singularity of others, it is possible only with those whose singularity we are able to resond to appropriately. There are various ways in which this might be impossible for us. In some cases we cannot see what the person is really like. In some cases we can, but we are not able to respect what we see. And in some cases the effort that understanding the person would ask of us is too much……”